I can’t speak for all men, but (sadly) I largely agree with you but perhaps on different grounds. People are taught culture and values and behavior—and the “leading men” in this man’s world have sick values. Which baby boys—even if they are born as a blank slate—learn.
I’d also recommend this video by Rachel Bloom, who is a comic genius:
https://youtu.be/Oa_QtMf6alU