If our default is treating everyone with respect, that’s a good start. Frankly, I’m neither proud nor embarrassed of my heritage. I didn’t chose it and I didn’t do anything to be born white or Jewish. (I’m not religious—THAT I can choose!) I had nothing to do to become the age I am now…other than survive this long.

I may or may not remember every person’s preferred pronoun. Hell, I can’t seem to even remember people’s names. But I try to be nice to everyone. Why the hell not? It’s the Golden Rule. I didn’t invent that, but I know a good idea when I see one.